If the love of your life demands a beer....

Just because someone is enjoying serving someone else, that does not mean their own needs and desires are belittled or ignored. The two are seperate events -- getting abused is not a logical consequence of serving someone. It is a possibility -- but if someone is prone to abusing others, they will do so in any other random way they can, and this is a case outside of the scope of this website.

Ladies (and Gentlemen) -- if the love of your life demands a beer -- why not just get it for them? No-one yet has lost a diamond out of their crown for being nice to someone special, and note -- they asked you. I think if you love them, no matter what the true power distribution in your relationship is -- you jump to it if you're serious about loving the other person.

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Now, if the request was a silly powergame, either play it at that level or shift the level to where you can play -- but if they are stuck in a thirsty situation they can not abandon (online game, phonecall etc) they will thank you for it (and it leaves a pleaseant vibe for the day and a smile on their face!), and everyone wins in the end if you can always smoothly co-operate with each other as a team.